Strangers from another world

Strangers from another world

.....and i think that it is possible to fall love with someone in a restaraunt whom you have never met before. (adapted from a quote in Wedding Daze the movie)

I believe that too. I have a friend who says that you need to have 4 stages in a relationship: acquaintance, friends, courtship then marriage. If you skip either step, this relationship will be doom. But there is no exact definition for what love is all about, and you certainly dont need to assign rules or steps or procedures. Rules are set by the people, and i dont want to be binded by it.

I only believe that everything is impossible if you never give it a try. I believe that there is love in first sight. I believe that it is possible to fall in love with a complete stranger. Love is a kind of feeling that you cant really explain with words. Like means like, dont like means dont like. It may have a similar definition to attraction but i just dont believe in attraction. Having fun, going out to fool around, those are just superficial attraction to satisfy one's desire. If you are contented with simple things in your life you will not be fallen into temptations.

Falling in love with a stranger takes courage. You dont want to feel that it is a one-sided relationship. I had that once and it hurts, only to realise it the hard way and got rejected by it. But i really do believe in falling in love with a complete stranger. The friendship, the courtship and all those whatever, they can be mutually cultivated along the process. It may sound rash, it may sound really bold of me to think that way, it may also be very risky of me to act this way, but i just believe that for a successful relationship you need to have mutual chemistry. It doesnt matter what each party sees in each other: looks, interest or etc, both must have equal commitment.

Then again it might just be stupid for me to think of it this way. Who would fall in love with a complete stranger? But, i am just trying to hold strong on my faith, is that a mistake too? Maybe i am just that gullible, but but.....what's with the but. I just want to shout out my feelings like through an open window, but only the wind will listen to my thoughts. Blow my words far and wide, spread my feelings haha.